Not Everything Requires A Reply.

"... It's Time To Say Farewell!"

I had part of me that was still living in my childhood, still dreaming, imagining, wishing for some sort of miracles to happen each and everyday of my life. 
              However, after hitting my 20s I've finally learnt, how others look or say doesn't justify who you are because those who truly know you will understand and those who judge you doesn't matter! This thought never came to me easily, because I've always been one of those people who care a great deal about how others look or talk about me. I even cared so much that I lived the first 20 years of my life the way others want me to. I did everything that others told me to, I listened to everything others got to say about me, I took everything in but at the end I realised ... Not only that I wasn't happy, but when I didn't meet other people's expectations, it made them disappointed too. 

Not everything requires a reply because only you know yourself... Don't ever let other people's views justify who you are!

Because It Is Required Of You.

A little too much, A little over the line, A little bit taken advantaged of ... 

Too many "A little ..." can one day become "A little too much." 
It may all just have started of by you giving others the benefit of the doubt but slowly they will learn that they can take more and more from you and that you will allow them to. But, soon it all becomes required of you. Because it's required of you so you have to change to suit them, because it's require of you so you have to do everything for them, because it's required of you so there is no excuse and because it's required of you, they don't need to say one thank you or one sorry to you.
         It can take One day, One month, One, Two or even Three years before you would say "Enough Is Enough."  
But In the end, you would turn around and look back and you would always thank those who once hurt you "... Because The Greatest Lessons In Life Is Never Learned From Multiple Success Instead, It's From Big And Great Falls In Life."

When Your Left Alone ...

"Be Who You Are And Say What You Feel Because Those Who Mind Doesn't Matter And Those Who Doesn't Mind Matters." 

On day to day basis we hear all kinds of judgements being made on us whether it's from those who we know or those who we didn't even knew they existed, as long as there is someone living, there will always be all kind of judgements and rumours. So, why do we still feel heart broken when we already knew that this is what humanity is like?
         Some day we can pretend that we couldn't hear anything but other days we can take it straight to heart. Someone once said : "Tears doesn't mean you are weak, it just means that you've been too strong for too long."
Yet there are those who said : "You would only find those tearing up because they expected too much from humanity." 

No matter which saying is true or whether none of them is true. We still must move forward because "The only time we should look back is when we want to see how far we've came."

Can You Bear Your Own Crown?

"If One Wants To Wear The Crown, They Must Bear The Crown ..."

         Every time we wear our uniforms we also wear the weight that comes along with it.  Some might be lighter than others, but from the moment you've decided to carry this piece of clothing on you, you agreed to wear what comes along with it, whether it is a crown or the little jewels.
        We always hear others saying : "People will improve as they grow up." 
But the truth is ... that we are just like those little jewels, at the end we are being placed and used however others like. From the beginning there was already no choice, we were already shaped into what they consider is right ... is correct for us. People who were born in wealthy families are born to play their sets of rules and those who we might consider normal or poor, have their own sets too. However, at the end only powerful people can adjust those that we consider as our standards and rules. 

Can you bear your own crown? Or are you wearing what doesn't belongs to you? 
If you are ... Have you ever thought of returning it?

Desires And Wishes.

"Always Hold Your Desires And Wishes To Heart To Learn The True Lessons In Life." 

         We all have a set of desires and wishes that may allows us to think they belong to us and that we control them but ... The truth is there is only a slight fine line in between us and it. Is it us that controls it or is it controlling us? Will it finally explode and will it be big enough to make an impact on us?
One year after another, We might tell ourselves if we keep trying and have the courage, we can change what we think is the truth. We might all once tried to write our desires and wishes over the truth but it's not to return it what doesn't belong to us. 

Don't try to over write what once was the truth. 
It's never too late to wake up and return it to others, you will find that every breath you take, without your desires and wishes taking over you ... Is a new page in life!

The Two Way Path.

In one question there is many answers and views to it, just like in one story there is one or more sides. Till today the phrase "I like it" is still so difficult to say ... And till today some people still don't know where they stand, whether they truly like something or simply just too used to it?

          We constantly ask ourselves the same questions over and over again but how many of us noticed, it doesn't matter how many times we asked the same question because ... We will still never have the courage to answer the question because deep down we all know that the words "I Don't Like It" is even harder to say and to accept.

Once Is Called "Silly", Twice Is Called "Stupid"

Some people say "God won't give you more than what you can handle."
However, would you still be saying that if you constantly fail lessons after lessons?

Sometimes people can forget that it only takes one strike to strike it through us, the same goes for wrong turns in life... It only takes one small wrong turn to take our breaths away. To believe that there is something better around the corner is a lie that everyone lives in. Letting yourself believe that anyone is there for you the first time round is called "Being Silly" but letting yourself believe in that again the second time round is called "Being Stupid."

We all sometimes can be "Silly" but don't let yourself be "Stupid."
In everyone's heart there is a set of scales, how they weight you - you can't control but make sure you don't weigh yourself wrong again!