Can You Bear Your Own Crown?

"If One Wants To Wear The Crown, They Must Bear The Crown ..."

         Every time we wear our uniforms we also wear the weight that comes along with it.  Some might be lighter than others, but from the moment you've decided to carry this piece of clothing on you, you agreed to wear what comes along with it, whether it is a crown or the little jewels.
        We always hear others saying : "People will improve as they grow up." 
But the truth is ... that we are just like those little jewels, at the end we are being placed and used however others like. From the beginning there was already no choice, we were already shaped into what they consider is right ... is correct for us. People who were born in wealthy families are born to play their sets of rules and those who we might consider normal or poor, have their own sets too. However, at the end only powerful people can adjust those that we consider as our standards and rules. 

Can you bear your own crown? Or are you wearing what doesn't belongs to you? 
If you are ... Have you ever thought of returning it?